What I'm starting to hate most about CoE (et seq.)? Not so much all the obvious things, but all the hurt and bitterness, anger and resentment it brought out. That it makes even posting about S3 a bit of a minefield, because I'm already too busy wondering if whatever I might say will be hurting people who are already hurting, or alienating people I like. What to say, what to shut up about. I've never actually been in such a position before, fandom-wise, and I don't like it very much.