Thank you! And yes, I put it very badly. I should probably also say that I'm not for a moment saying that I think all gay men are sexist. I know that's not true! I'm all for deciding on each person's particular makeup and reaction to any situation individually rather than trying to categorize them in groups.

*Groan*. Everything is so complicated, and as you say I am feeling kind of flattened and inarticulate at the moment. And with all of this I don't even have anything to say about Torchwood except that for my own part I've stopped thinking about it altogether.