I don't remember the exact details, and her posts have disappeared since (the rest of the thread and reactions are here (http://pirate-moose.livejournal.com/5807.html?thread=15791#t15791)); I don't even remember who linked me to it in the first place, but apparently someone gave it to JB at Collectormania and explained the whole thing at some length, and when he asked if she'd still watch S4 without Ianto, said 'No' and flounced off. I'm sure he was very impressed & will immediately start campaigning for Ianto's return.