"the utter inability and unwillingness to see something for what it is, to even try to understand an author's, or character's motivation, to try and look at something from a point of view other than one's own, or, god forbid, to question one's own perception [...]
quit complaining that this isn't how the character, the relationship, the situation were 'supposed' to be, if only the author wasn't too stupid to see your vision."

Could you please say this to soavezefiretto ?

Oops, sorry to involve you in a private discussion, but you just voiced my thoughts verbatim.